WHOM HE LOVES

John 11:3 Therefore his sisters sent unto him, saying, Lord, behold, he whom thou lovest is sick.

When the sisters of Lazarus went to Jesus they did not stress the fact that Lazarus loved Jesus but that Jesus loved Lazarus.
It is important that we love Jesus, because we realize that He first loved us. It is impossible for us to love Him the way we should until we first realize how much He loved us.
Sometimes we try to base our relationship with Jesus on our own feelings and to be perfectly honest sometimes we don't feel all that spiritual or full of love. Satan can use that to cause us to doubt or question our relationship with God. Our moods change, our situations change, and our attitude sometimes changes. The level of our emotions varies from day to day and even from moment to moment.
The one thing that we can count on is that God does not change and the love of Jesus for us never wavers. The more we realize that it is His love for us that saved us, the more our hearts will overflow with love for Him.